Stress Less Dress Shopping

"No one tells you how stressful dress shopping can be!"

Many women begin dreaming of their wedding day at a very early age and even if the other details are hazy, the perception of a perfect wedding dress is clear.  When the young lady final has opportunity to shop for this dream, the anticipation has often built to a crescendo that surpasses a child's excitement at Christmas.  There are many issues that can cause the search to become stressful, but here are a few tips on how to reduce that potential as much as humanly possible.

- Gather images from online or from magazines that portray elements you like.  It doesn't have to be a complete look, although it can be.  The lace from this one, the length from that one, and so forth are all helpful.  Create a folder or scrapbook with these images, noting what you like about each.  Take this with you to give the sales clerk a better understanding of your desires.

- Don't wait until the last minute!  Shopping early gives you the luxury of options.  9-12 months in advance is a great time frame.

- Bridal salons are busiest in the first half of the year and on Saturdays.  If possible, try to schedule an appointment mid-week for the best service.

- Speaking of service.  If you're sales clerk doesn't make you feel special, move on.

- Be open to the sales clerk's suggestions.  They are trained to dress varying body types and personalities and understand the benefits and challenges of particular styles and fabrics.  Utilize their expertise.  You may find that what you purchase is totally different from what you anticipated buying, but it is perfect!

- Determine your budget before you go and don't forget to include alterations and accessories.

- Don't let a clerk show you dresses out of your budget unless you are willing to ignore the line you've set for yourself.  Often, there's a reason expensive dresses are more expensive; largely due to the fit or drape, which will obviously look better!

- Too many people add confusion.  Take at least one person, maybe two, who are supportive, honest, and your cheerleader.

- Make sure all details are in writing and follow up a few weeks after placing the order to make sure everything is still on track. 

- Show up on time for fittings.  Have fun, but take it seriously.  Don't waste the clerk's time!  Staying on his/her good side will benefit you if issues come up!

Have some fun playing with Design Your Own Wedding Dress!

~Jami

Designers, top to bottom:  Douglas Hannant, Ines di Santo, Lazaro, Priscilla of Boston