Creating an Idea File

In my opinion, this is one of the most fun aspects of planning your wedding. First, develop a system for organizing your ideas. This may be an accordion folder with several pockets, a notebook dedicated just for this purpose, or a scrapbook or journal. If you are a creative person, the scrapbook and journal options offer opportunity for sketching and jotting down thoughts and will allow you a keepsake to treasure after the event. A file folder will allow you to best organize your ideas into categories, for instance, "bouquets", "centerpieces", "cakes", "bridesmaid dresses", etc.

Next, think outside the box. Wedding publications are the obvious places to look for inspiration and can be extremely helpful. However, your garden, paint store, or favorite dress might provide that perfect color or bouquet flower.

If you are using a file folder, you can tear out and place an entire page into the appropriate pocket, such as "dress ideas". A folder will also hold brochures and business cards collected at bridal shows.

While you can certainly make notes and place them in a folder, it can also be insightful to use a large journal. Get creative! Instead of securing a full or partial page clipped at 90 degree angles to the journal, cut around the shape of the photo you have collected. Jot notes listing what you like about the item. Love the bodice of the dress but wish it had a mermaid skirt? Make the note . . . even include a sketch with a drawing pencil or colored pencils. Include the date and jot down your wedding thoughts for that day.

Intersperse a few personal photos of you and your fiance or have someone snap a few shots of you and your bridesmaids dress shopping. Have each girl write a short comment stating what she enjoyed most about the day. Spa day with mom? Include it, too!

Looking back on your thoughts and dreams will bring fond memories and create a wonderful legacy for those who follow. It might even be nice to display it at the ceremony!